Please be sure to submit your questions to me through email at paromanceparties@gmail.com. All questions are confidential. You are more than welcome to send several questions at time.

Dear Danielle,

               I gave birth to my first child 6 months ago. I cannot seem to get in "the mood" and intimate with my husband. I have to force myself and once foreplay is initiated I can finally get into it. Is there something I can do to help jump start my body? My husband thinks I am not attracted to him anymore and it hurts his feelings.

Moody

Dear Moody,

              This is not uncommon. It happens to the best of us! What I can suggest is trying an enhancer like "Climaxa". Climax is a stimulation gel that only requires a tear drop amount to be placed on the clitoris. Once applied, you will feel a warm tingly sensation which awakens the nerve endings and allows blood to rush to the area. It will definetly give you that "jump start" you are looking for. Climaxa also intensifies your clitoral orgasms!

Dear Danielle,

                A couple weeks ago but husband bought me my first toy called a Silver Bullet. I have not used it alone as of yet but my husband has used it on me and it doesn't seem to be doing anything for me. He said it is supposed to help give me a G-spot orgasm and no matter how much he tries it doesn't work. I don't think I have a G-spot. Is this common?

G-Quizzed

Dear G-Quizzed,

                  I will tell you that you do have a G-spot! I am certain of it. I beleive the problem your having is that a Silver Bullet is not for G-spot stimulation. A Silver Bullet is not for internal vaginal use. You would want to apply that bullet to your clitoris to have a clitoral orgasm. Bullets should not be inserted into the vaginal canal because they have a seal and the motor is inside the toy. Should the seal break it could cause harm to your body. If you are seeking to find and stimulate your G-spot I recommend a DVD called " G-spot & Female Ejaculation". This DVD is very detailed and has assisted thousands of my customers in their search for the G-Spot! I would love to talk with you more in detail to assist you in your search for a G-Spot toy that will work best for you.

Dear Danielle,

                 My boyfriend is boob man. He loves boobs and hard nipples. I have large boobs and wear a 38DD. The trouble is that he likes hard nipples and my nipples need to be stimulated alot before they become hard. I would like to be able to learn how to get them hard before play to excite him. Is there any techniques I could use to help with that?

Missy

Dear Missy,

            You are not alone! Every woman is different and there is nothing wrong with you. It would be nice to present your breasts to your boyfriend in the manner in which would excite him. Let me introduce you to a product that works great. It's called Nipple Nibblers. This product will give your nipples a cool sensation causing them to  get hard and tingly. You will enjoy the feeling and it is also edible so your boyfriend can enjoy the flavor.